SOULFUL SUNDAY

"what you do makes a difference

     and you have to decide what kind of difference

                              you want to make"

                                                          Jane Goodall

YOLO.....You only live once!!!!  We get one life, one shot, one chance to make it all worth wild.  Enjoy life but also no matter what your profession is no matter how much or how little you have do something where at the end of the day you can say "I made a difference"!!!


                                                ~fun on the town~

When: Mon Jan 23rd 8:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m.
What: All You Can Bowl at Lucky Strike Lanes
Where: Lucky Strike Lanes
                624-660 West 42nd St
                New York, NY
The Perfect after work get together!! Come to Lucky Strike pay $22 and bowl all night!!!!

When: Wed Jan 25th 9:00 p.m.- 12:00 a.m.
What: Cosmopolitan Magazine Release Party
Where: The Empire Room
                 350 5th Ave
                 New York, NY

Join Cosmopolitan Magazine for their official release party that will have live performances!!!


When: Thurs Jan 26th 7:00 p.m.- 10:00 p.m.
What: Free Advanced Screening for ABC's "The River"
Where: Landmark Sunshine Cinema
                143 East Houston Street
                New York, NY
VIEW HERE


                               ~concerts~

When: Sat Jan 28th starting at 8:00 p.m.
What: Lenny Kravitz & Raphael Saadiq
Where: Radio City Music Hall
                1260 6th Ave
                New York, NY

                                                ~parties~

When: Fri Jan 27th!!
What: Fusion Fridays
Where: Club Rebel NYC
251 West 30th St
bt 7 ave & 8 ave
Special event going down on Jan 27!! VH1 and Basketball Wive's Draya will be in the already hot venue to celebrate her birthday!! Ladies and Gents come out and join Dj Spin Citi, Dj Envy, and Dj Boof as keep the party rocking right!! Bottle service is available. We promise it is the event not to Miss!!

Have a great productive yet enjoyable week to all of our readers!!

SCANDALOUS SATURDAYS

"there's a thin _____________ between being FWB and the next step"
                        -Trina 1STCLASSLADIES

    this to that--------------->








FWB.... short for Friends With Benefits is strictly a form of a relationship that is based on sex (first and foremost), fun, being adventorous with a person that holds no commitment what so ever.  Must be nice! The countless sexual escapades that leaves you satisfied but anticipating the next encounter.  Is it possible that two people can have such a relationship without catching, throwing, having feelings for the other person????

HHHMMMM......We dont know however we do know some signs that can detect that this FWB situation can be leading to a more serious relationship.


~checking in....

When your FWB partner starts texting or calling you during the day to see how your day is going this is a definite indicator that things might just be getting a little more serious than just the late night calls.  Actually taking the time during  your day to contact that person and say "Hey how's your day going?" or even "Thinking of you" speaks volumes more than just being friends with benefits.  It shows that you care and are thinking about this person  
outside of the bedroom!!


~name calling....

Baby, Boo, My Lady, My Mr...just a few terms that we feel says more to each other than just we're FWB status.  When you are refered to as "My Baby" "My Boo" no woman can deny it feels quite good!!!  So if your out one night hanging with that "FWB" and hes on the phone with one of his boys and you over hear him say something along the lines of "Im hanging with my Boo" you can do so in getting the feeling of "what did he just say, did he refer to me as his_____???" and smile!!!


~date night....

Being asked to go out on a date is always any indication of being liked more so than just being invited over for some late night fun in the sheets.  A date is actually a gesture of let me take you out somewhere nice where i can show you what im all about and most importantly i can find out what you're all about.  Its the only step towards building a relationship.  If your in a situation where you have FWB  and he/she asks of you for a date and the feelings are mutual this situation is definitely heading to something more serious!!


~meeting the fam....

Anytime your being introduced or brought around his/her family is a strong indication that needs no saying that "I want to take you more seriously".  Meeting of loved ones is a sign that you mean more to that person.  Only the best should meet the best so consider yourself moving on up!!!!



~gift buying

Valentine's Day, Christmas, Your Born Day, Just Because Day.....Another way to know that your FWB contract has expired and a relationship contract is being typed up is when one or both parties start buying gifts.  Clothes here, jewelry there are all signs that they're thinking of the other party in another light.  If you're out shopping see a pair of earrings and start to think to yourself "those would look nice on her" or "he could kill that leather jacket" FWB is no MORE!!!!

Never know which direction being Friends With Benefits will go however if spending such intimate moments together one or both parties are bound to catch feelings!!

FASHION FRIDAY

"everything that i wear tailored"
                                                    Trina-1STCLASSLADIES

Everything tailored isn't all Wiz Khalifa, infact tailored emerged onto the fashion scene back in the 1950's and has remerged to claim it's rightful spot.  The tailored look to the 1950's is like Red Bottoms to our present generation.  Back in those days it was a trend to wear tailored dresses, suits, skirts and to top it all off a pair of gloves.  Woman during this time represented class (we're all for CLASS) by wearing these assembles.

Still representing class even in this day and age "taliored" is back and 1STCLASSLADIES are here to give you our Top Picks!!

blazer

                                                  h&m

                                                  VIEW HERE                               

                                                            pants
                                                               h&m
                                                            VIEW HERE

                                                                       donna karan
                                             VIEW HERE

     ~fashion lights report~

Rev Run's oldest the beautiful Vanessa Simmons has taken a leap from designing Pastry's sneakers and apparel to a grown & sexy lingerie line!!  The line is named Rose by Vanessa Jean

Thoughts For Thursday

Censorship in any form is the enemy of creativity, since it cuts off the life blood of the creativity: ideas- Allan Jenkins

What would the world wide web (www) be like if it was censored? No more expressing your daily frustrations on facebook, no more YouTube as a source of entertainment your favorite site inaccessible ALL due to censoring that our government is trying to introduce in a new bill called Stop Online Piracy Act (SOPA.) The main reason this bill was set into play was to protect intelligent property. Though this is a serious problem, all that would come of this bill would be so vast it would absolutely over shadow the worth that it would provide based on how it is being presented today.

What would be some of the impacts of SOPA??

• Social networks, personal pages as well as sites that allow people to express their thoughts could become unsearchable and blocked on the Internet.
• Content you share like videos, photos and stats updates will be monitored.
• The rise of censorship could possibly remove legitimate content.
• Using of PayPal could be coerced into stop doing business with sites because that site has been blocked.
• APLATEOFTHISACUPOFTHAT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME!!!!!!!!

Top Gunners At Risk Of Being Hurt By SOFA

• YouTube
• Facebook
• Twitter
• Google
• no to mention the thousands of other site and/or social networks

THIS IS NOT OVER!!!! There are steps you can take in order to try and put an end to this bill. Let them know you have a voice and you should be allowed to use it virtually! The world is not peaches and cream, people have bad/hard times. If your having a bad day and feel like letting loose on your status- you should be able to.  That's why its called "your status!" Want a good YouTube laugh, tutorial, video after a long day? You should be able to access that. If its not harming anyone physically and ALL parties involved agree to the release of such footage, it should not be a problem. Here is what you can do to help.

• Send a pre written letter to your congressman via the American Censorship website (by using this link)
• Send the "Stop the E-Parasite act" petition (by clicking this link)

1stClassladies would like to continue to speak our minds and keep you guys entertained and updated on any and everything we can. If this bill is passed that might not be possible. Lets make sure that DOESN'T happen!!!!

....we ask our readers, what do u think of this????
                                             *comment below*

WANTED WEDNESDAYS

“What is now proved
  Was once only imagined.”


                        William Blake

In this day and should we say any age it isn't uncommon to be employed at the same time attending school.  You could be someone who had to take the labor route while skipping school and now find yourself attending school.  You could be the college grad who is considering going back into school to further your education and career.  No matter what the reasoning is, it's never too late to get back into school and finish what you want to accomplish.  Even if you currently work.  Only struggle among any others is how to balance both work and school. 

It will be challenging at times with the demands that work carries and with adding more on with school.  However the reward at the end is so worth it and it all benefits you and your career.  With some hard work, determination, support, and a little helpful guide from us we're sure to help map out some pointers to help keep you sane!!

                              Balancing Work & School 

Scheduling: When it comes to dealing with both work & school we recommend a consistent schedule.  If never using a calendar, date book, or phone app now is the time to do so.  With work schedules, class schedules, assignments, projects, meetings, etc. you will need to jot down everything to the T.  This way your always prepared when something is due. 

Be Organized: Without organization you have nothing.  Keep on top of work and school assignments.  Keep conscious of when deadlines are to come giving yourself ample time to complete assignments. 

Handling STRESS:  One thing balancing work and school will bring is plenty STRESS.  When getting breaks take the time to yourself.  Either to relax or most importantly catch up on some much needed sleep.

Make sure to maintain a healthy lifestyle.  You will need to be in good health and stamina to keep up with such a hectic at times schedule.  Eat healthy and excercise as needed to keep your body feeling good and even your mental!!   

All work and no play is never good.  Though work and school comes first and foremost do take the time out when necessary to still enjoy yourself and have a good time.  Alittle fun never hurt anyone!!


Communicate: With the extreme amount of work on your hands be sure to communicate to your loved ones, work, and school just how much pressure your under.  This way you can get the support you will need as you go along. 

EYE ON THE PRIZE: The most important of all tips we advice is to keep your eye on the prize!! Know and instill in your mind that all this hard work, sleepless nights, stressful days will be all worth it in the long run once your degree is awarded to you.


                                                                ~apartments~

Bushwick

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Williamsburg

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Bronx

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Harlem

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East Harlem

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West 139th St

INFO HERE

~employment~

Direct Supp Asst Trainee

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Entry Level Maintenance

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Custodial Asst (John Jay College)

APPLY HERE: Look for Position Title

Painter (NYC Tech)

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Mail Message Services Worker (Hunter College)

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Laborer A (Medgar Evers College)

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PayRoll Specialist-JetBlue (Forest Hills, NY)

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Center Customer Service Rep FEDEX

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Center Specialist FEDEX

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SOULFUL SUNDAYS

“Listen to the mustn'ts, child.
Listen to the don'ts.
Listen to the shouldn'ts, the impossibles, the won'ts.
Listen to the never haves, then listen close to me...
Anything can happen, child.
Anything can be.”


Shel Silverstein

Always remember in life that anything is possible. We repeat ANYTHING!! Dont waste your time here on earth dreaming of the possibilities and instead take charge. Do your exstensive research on what it is you would like to exceed at in life and work on perfecting your craft. With the knowledge, great work ethic, and determination you are headed for success.



~shopping~

When: Sun Jan 15th- Sun Jan 22nd 7:30 a.m.- 8:00 p.m.
What: The Bloomingdales Sale
Where: Bloomingdale's
East 59th & Lexington
If there was ever a chance to get a deal. This week at Bloomingdales is that time. Rack up on Womens, Mens, Kids, and Home Items 80% off!!

When: Sun Jan 15th- Thurs Feb 2nd Various Times
What: Patricia Field Sale
Where: 302 Bowery bt Bleecker & Houston Sts
Enjoy 20% 2012 merchandise and possibly score some Valentine's Day items, early!!

When: Mon Jan 16th- Sun Jan 22nd 11:00 a.m.- 7:00 p.m.

What: Tess Giberson Sale

Where: 97 Crosby St bt Prince & Spring sts

The NYC based designer is cutting prices 50-80 % off!! Enjoy!!

When: Now through Tues Jan 31st 10:00 a.m.- 8:00 p.m.

What: ZARA SALE

Where: All ZARA stores

Enjoy one of APAC's favs desingers sales!! Shop any store site to knab your blazers, dresses, and more.

~events~

When: Every Fri!!
What: Fusion Fridays
Where: Club Rebel NYC
251 West 30th St
bt 7 ave & 8 ave
Special event going down on Jan 27!! VH1 and Basketball Wive's Draya will be in the already hot venue to celebrate her birthday!! Ladies and Gents come out and join Dj Spin Citi, Dj Envy, and Dj Boof as keep the party rocking right!! Bottle service is available. We promise it is the event not to Miss!!

~the arts~

When: Ongoing
What: "From Brooklyn to the World" A History of BAM
Where: 30 Lafayette Ave
Bklyn, NY
For BAM's sesquicentennial they've created an exhibit that is filled with film and photo from the time eras of the 1800's and the more present.

FOR MORE INFO






~date night~
a list of great date ideas this week
in bklyn..........


What: Cooking Class
Well Fellas if your cooking game is not on point here is a great way to show your date you have great taste in wining and dining without killing her with your own disaster creations! Here you can both take a private cooking lesson!!
Where: Brooklyn Kitchen Labs
100 Frost St at Manhattan Ave
Brooklyn NY
(718) 389-2982

What: Bowling
Wanna have a fun date instead of the oh so serious suited up dinner. Try going bowling at this antique vinatge bowling alley thats not going to cost you an arm and leg with bonus decor!!
Where: The Gutter
200 North 14 st bt Berry st & Wythe Ave
Brooklyn, NY
(718) 387- 3585
FOR MORE INFO


in the city.......


What: Dessert
Lets just skip dinner and go straight to the dessert before the real dessert!! One romantic way to achieve this is at this french style location!
Where: Cafe Lalo
201 W 83rd st bt Amsterdam Ave & Broadway
FOR MORE INFO

What:Brunch
Myabe not the traditional night time date but lets "Do Brunch"  No better place to do just that at this venue thats looks something out of a weekend movie scene.
Where: The Cornelia Street Cafe
                 29 Cornelia st bt Bleecker & 4th sts
FOR MORE INFO

What: Jazz Music
Wanna have a date thats something out of a "Love Jones" movie scene.  Try and reinact here!!
Where: Smalls Jazz Club
                183 W 10th st bt 7th ave south & W 4th st
FOR MORE INFO

            have a great week everyone

                 if visiting a listing feel free to give

               us your feedback, thank you in advance.

FASHION FRIDAY

“Whoever said that money can't buy happiness,

simply didn't know where to go shopping”                                 

~Bo Derek

January is here and winter has yet to really show its Ugly side.  However there is something so Fly about a man or woman dressed perfectly for winter time.  Whether your a male wearing a Moncler Anthime coat or a female wearing a fur vest.  Lets not forget whats on your feet???? To help 1STCLASSLADIES are here to list our top Boot picks!!!!!

HUNTER WEDGE RAIN BOOT
-175
BUY HERE

BURBERRY LEATHER & SHEARLING ANKLE BOOTS

                                                          RACHEL ROY CARMINO
                                                                               -159
                                                                          VIEW HERE

                                                                  
                                                                     

ALICE AND OLIVIA

-157
VIEW HERE

MICHAEL KORS

IVANA SUEDE AND RED FOX SHEARLING ANKLE BOOTS

-149

VIEW HERE

   

     ~fashion lights report~

Blue Ivy isnt the only Baby Booming, according to Elle.com designers are in the works for creating baby collections.  Such desginers include Roksana Ilincic and Isaac Mizrahi.  Expect to see Roksana's line early summer which will be filled with shirts and dresses inspired by her two year old daughter.  From Issac Mizrahi expect to see apparel as well as accessories.