SCANDALOUS SATURDAYS

"there's a thin _____________ between being FWB and the next step"
                        -Trina 1STCLASSLADIES

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FWB.... short for Friends With Benefits is strictly a form of a relationship that is based on sex (first and foremost), fun, being adventorous with a person that holds no commitment what so ever.  Must be nice! The countless sexual escapades that leaves you satisfied but anticipating the next encounter.  Is it possible that two people can have such a relationship without catching, throwing, having feelings for the other person????

HHHMMMM......We dont know however we do know some signs that can detect that this FWB situation can be leading to a more serious relationship.


~checking in....

When your FWB partner starts texting or calling you during the day to see how your day is going this is a definite indicator that things might just be getting a little more serious than just the late night calls.  Actually taking the time during  your day to contact that person and say "Hey how's your day going?" or even "Thinking of you" speaks volumes more than just being friends with benefits.  It shows that you care and are thinking about this person  
outside of the bedroom!!


~name calling....

Baby, Boo, My Lady, My Mr...just a few terms that we feel says more to each other than just we're FWB status.  When you are refered to as "My Baby" "My Boo" no woman can deny it feels quite good!!!  So if your out one night hanging with that "FWB" and hes on the phone with one of his boys and you over hear him say something along the lines of "Im hanging with my Boo" you can do so in getting the feeling of "what did he just say, did he refer to me as his_____???" and smile!!!


~date night....

Being asked to go out on a date is always any indication of being liked more so than just being invited over for some late night fun in the sheets.  A date is actually a gesture of let me take you out somewhere nice where i can show you what im all about and most importantly i can find out what you're all about.  Its the only step towards building a relationship.  If your in a situation where you have FWB  and he/she asks of you for a date and the feelings are mutual this situation is definitely heading to something more serious!!


~meeting the fam....

Anytime your being introduced or brought around his/her family is a strong indication that needs no saying that "I want to take you more seriously".  Meeting of loved ones is a sign that you mean more to that person.  Only the best should meet the best so consider yourself moving on up!!!!



~gift buying

Valentine's Day, Christmas, Your Born Day, Just Because Day.....Another way to know that your FWB contract has expired and a relationship contract is being typed up is when one or both parties start buying gifts.  Clothes here, jewelry there are all signs that they're thinking of the other party in another light.  If you're out shopping see a pair of earrings and start to think to yourself "those would look nice on her" or "he could kill that leather jacket" FWB is no MORE!!!!

Never know which direction being Friends With Benefits will go however if spending such intimate moments together one or both parties are bound to catch feelings!!