Scandalous Saturday

Know you're tired of the usual, usual, usual..
                                                                         

                                                                                  I can give you more than the usual..
 

Not your regular, Tell you what, Let me touch,..

                                                                                                You gon' feel something unusual..!!

Sexual Fetishism or (Erotic Fetishism): The sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation.

                                                               



There are many ways to turn your lover on, but we all have that specific trigger that takes us from being turned on slightly. To full out SUPER FREAK!! So this edition of SCANDALOUS Saturday, is dedicated to the closet freaks. As the 1stClassLadies discuss your Fetishes; as well as our own. Lol, what you ain't know? We wouldn't be us if we didn't get a Lil nasty!!

 
 
As Rihanna would say " Suck my cockiness.. Lick my puss-uasion"!

 There is no fetish more common; than the lip-stick smudging oral fixation. From the time we exit the womb, our first instinct has been to suckle. So it should be no surprise that, this die hard habit you've never fully outgrown. Sure at first it was your thumb, a occasional biting of a pencil or pen, then the ever so popular lollipop. And we can't forget the die hard signal; eating bags of ice.

 It may have not occurred to you, that you have a need to constantly place things into your mouth, until you reached adult hood. But your oral addiction has caused you to be "Head of the class"  with the strongest mouth muscles around. Which is enough to make your partner lean back, look to the sky; thanking the almighty above. Your not afraid to dive in "Eat the birthday cake... cake..cake" just keep in mind that all cakes aren't filled with your preference of icing.

" I'll do anything that you say.. Cause you the BOSS!!". So do like Chris Brown and make them "Beg For It"!!

 If you constantly like to be restrained, gagged, even a little light choking or spanking. Adina Howard, doesn't have anything on you. There's nothing wrong with relinquishing power every now and then, especially if your usually the person in command. But every now and then you need to be told how naughty you've been; and tied up for it! There's nothing wrong with a Lil tussle and bustle in the bedroom.  It shows how much you trust your partner, while creating some much needed excitement. However.. when introducing such elements play safe. And if choking is a part of your sexual get me off have a safety signal or word. 

Sexual interest of the feet can get the party started. Though more common in that of our men, feet can definitely have a brother weak at the knees. From the smell to the size, French manicure or seductive ruby red. These simple factors play an erotic role in pleasing some partners.  Foot podophilia is the most common of the non sexual acts of fetishism but be careful as to where to draw the line with fetish and strange. When you wake up in the middle of the night and he is laying there at the foot of the bed gazing at your feet in the dark that's when it's time to slowly step away! 

Nothing like a mean shoe game for a woman. Not only does she fancy it but so does some of the fellas. Something about being press down to the ground by a woman with the heel of her shoe smashed against his chest taking charge that drives him sick and his junior even more ill. "it's all in her walk" as some would say but the shoe is what makes the walk seductive and keeps him feenin! Red pumps, patten leather, thigh high boots- you take your pick. Somewhere out there, each shoe does the job and does it right. Now don't be fooled women can suffer from this fetishism as well. The need to own them all- every style, brand, color, and price is no object. 

There's no denying your fondness for "playing in her hair" and ladies; we all know you were attracted to "his waves on swim while they hate on him".

Better yet those locks (clean/ precisely dreaded and oiled) to make him look like a Nubian god.  Jewels and gems there's a good reason we primp and groom the ever changing tresses. Not just for the visual appeal either. But since adolescence we've been entangled in the obsession of  who has "good hair".

For men we know there is something exotic about a female with long hair who don't care, whether it's the length, the texture, or the enjoyment of running your fingers though it. Hell even entwining and gripping it in a moment of ecstasy. The fact remains that hair has a erotic sentiment. Let's be real would you pay for a pack of virgin Remy if it didn't. Even the ladies with the pixie cuts entice, coming out with natural curls and waves. And what can be better for a wall posted session in the shower.

Everything eatable!! Berries.. Melons.. & Peaches; Oh my (wink*) 

There is no denying that the food fetish can be as titillating to the senses, leading to a deeper satisfaction. Yes, it is seen as playful teasing to some; yet there is no denying that our sense of taste can heighten excitement. But when you add other elements to the party.. like whipped cream, honey, and ice. The sense of touch leads to eroticism.