Theory Thursday

                     The things that we crave the most are the things that destroy us the quickest.”

                                                                                                              ~ Wiz Khalifa 

                                                          

                                                           

                                                                     ROLL UP THEORY

        They say “The grass is not always greener on the other side.”So why is it that so many people are tempted to water it? The yearning to lay foot on new territory out of curiosity. Not knowing what type of infestation may lie beneath the soil.  With such recognition from the music industry, it kind of makes you wonder if we as society should find comfort in the idea of a “roll up” “insurance policy” “spear tire” “ bench warmers” “starting five” “ side chick” “ mistress” etc.   Infamous lyrics mentioned in various artists’ songs pertaining to the subject seem to promote the concept at hand. For example the lines “When you at home, that’s your man…Soon as you land you say it’s all me” and “…you keep fitting me in your plans and fucking up..Your man’s gonna catch onto us” from the 2010 release of Wiz Khalifa’s song “Roll Up” illustrates the facade of a successful affair.

           

                     In reality there is so much more than what meets the eye.  It starts out as fulfilling the needs of which one has been lacking.  Reasons varying from lack of attention, time spent away from one another, broken trust, and of course sexual appetites being left neglected.   As the singer Joe says “I’d give the world to make you mine” and most famously “Baby I wanna do all the things your man won’t do,” thus leaving a vacancy for the next man or woman to step into your shoes.  However the ideal of finding what is lacking at home can come with many setbacks and repercussions.  The laid back individual who is supposed to decrease stress begins to add fuel to the flames looking for titles to be set and placed.  As there aren’t any set rules and regulations in this scenario it is highly advised to keep all feelings neutral in other words KNOW YOUR PLACE, AND PLAY YOUR POSITION!!!!

                Beyond one or both parties catching feelings, while playing coy, there's other negative aspects to this affair not being so successful.  As this affair continues further than the “breaking you off” occurrences one has to ponder various cause and effects.

WHAT DO U THINK????

            

1. If  having a significant other, why have a "roll up" if you can choose to "roll out"???
2. Can having a "roll up" be successful??
3. Is the role of a "roll up" gender specified???
4. Is falling for the "roll up" Unacceptable??? 
5. If  the "roll up" has a significant other, is he/ she looked upon negatively by the person who's sharing such guilty pleasures???
6. To avoid "I'll bust your windows out your car" incidents from taken place, should there be a "roll up" Agreement???
7. What boundary has to be crossed for you to cut your "roll up" OFF???