Saturday, December 31, 2011

Scandalous Saturday

"A man reserves his true and deepest love...
             
                                                             not for the species of woman in whose company
                                                      
     he finds himself electrified and en kindled, 
                                            
                                                       but for one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy. "
                                                                                                                        - 
George Jean Nathan

                                                 
                                              Late Nights & Early Mornings



So the holidays are almost over; and with the New Year in tow you've decided to embark in taking your relationship to another level. Congratulations you've successfully surpassed the expectations of cuffing season. But before you start chanting lyrics of love songs like " Your The One" by Rihanna, or for the fellas DRAKE "SHUT iT dOWN" we advise you get your overnight bag set up for many nights of romantic escapades. Sure you've probably swung by on a late night after the club, with antic-dotes for things Santa almost put you on the naughty list for. Strutting home smiling in your dress, with sin written all over it.Your lip prints still fresh on forbidden spots, and passion indents on your waist from him holding on for dear life. And a extra pep in your step from a mission accomplished. 


 
                                                 Overnight Bag Essentials

   1)Travel size toiletries bag; including the following : 
                  
A reasonable bag can be purchased @ CVS or Target
  •              Toothpaste/ Toothbrush                               
  •              Deodorant
  •              Pantyliner
  •              Tampon or Pad ( just in case)*  
  •             Always wipes
  •              Brush/ Comb                                                     
  •             Travel size Lotion                               
  •              Soap/ Wash Cloth
  •             Perfume
                                                                                                      
2) His favorite piece of lingerie; 
                            accented by a good (Come F Me) Shoe!!
  
  • Know your partner.. are they a thong, boyshort, or nothing man or woman?

  • Do they like pumps, open toe platforms, or a good sling back?






  * Keep in mind if your a trenchcoat girl this is not nessecary   
               








Friday, December 30, 2011

FASHION FRIDAY

“In a meat-eating world, wearing leather for shoes and even clothes, the discussion of fur is childish.”

                                                                                            -Karl Lagerfeld





No disrespect to PETA as 1STCLASSLADIES but this winter you can be Stylish and Warm!!  Gracing the runways without paint being thrown is Fur assembles and accessories.  Most popular is the Fur Vest!!!  This hot new trend gives a more fiercer look to your assemble whether your rocking a dress or even denim.  Not to mention many desginers are accenting their shoes and bags with Fur.  Take a look at our TOP PICKS FOR FUR WINTER MUST HAVES.






BCBGENERATION HOODED FUR VEST
VIEW HERE





BCBGENERATION FREESIA FUR BOOTS


 LUXURY REBEL "KACY" BOOT


FUR WAIST COAT




ZARA FUR BELT


CITY BAG BY ZARA WITH FUR AT THE SIDES








Thursday, December 29, 2011

THOUGHTS FOR THURSDAY

"CHEERS TO A NEW YEAR AND ANOTHER CHANCE FOR US TO GET IT RIGHT"
                                                                               -OPRAH WINFREY



ARE NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS OVERRATED?????


Everyone knows a new year feels like a new you.  A clean slate which momentarily makes you feel that you can rid of all the bad that has taken place from the past year.  Well no one possesses the real power to erase moments from their life.  However with the anticipation of a new year you can definitely come in with your goals, plans, aspirations, all better known as your list of RESOLUTIONS!!

So...What Will it be??!!  That new corner office that you've been busting your tail for night and day??  Making sure deadlines are met, never tardy and instead coming in earlier and leaving for the day even later but somehow your higher up's arent noticing.  The thirty pounds you plan on losing for health and/or vanity purposes.  The "true love" you plan on seeking to find.  

There can be a million and one resolutions you may have that can be anywhere from the smallest positive change to reaching the stars.  Go for it!!  Though most people may not stick with what it is they have as their resolution it comes with a very positive attribute.  With New Years Resolutions you feel a sense of a clean slate, a fresh start, to make what didn't happen happen, what didn't work out work.  All that wasn't accomplished or went wrong you have a new set of 365 days to make a change.

If you ask us New Years Resolutions are just right.  They're a jump start to the expectations you have of yourself and it pushes you to have something to look forward to achieving.  With that being said get you pens & paper, ipads, iphone notes, computers, laptops, typewriters, whatever it is you need to jot down what your resolutions and lets make it happen in 2012!!!!!!



Tuesday, December 27, 2011

WANTED WEDNESDAYS

LIVE LIKE NO OTHER
                          SO YOU CAN LIVE LIKE NO OTHER!!
                                                                    DAVID RAMSEY





TOP 12 FINANCIAL GOALS FOR 2012


In this economy people are facing very difficult hardships when it comes to their financial statuses. Whether your faced with it or not there is always room for positive financial growth.

With employment loses in the past but getting better this is the time for everyone to concentrate on what they can do now so if facing hardships in the future they will have made the right decisions to have something to fall back on.  This consist of savings accounts, insurance policies, children's college funds, stock and bonds, etc. 

1STCLASSLADIES has teamed up to give you our Top 12 Financial Goals for 2012.

PRIORITIES FIRST: The first goal is to allows practice to take care of your priorities first.  Rent, Car-Note, Daycare Fees, Groceries, all necessities before Luxury.  In the words of one 1STCLASSLADY "Dont have fresh nails done but your lights are turned off.


CREDIT:  Nowadays everything you do is based on your credit.  The purchase of a home, vehicle, even employment in some cases.  If needing to do so improve your credit.  Check for your credit score and review your credit report.  Pay off any delinquent accounts in making the proper steps to increase your credit status.


SAVINGS: Anyway to budget your money is definitely in what you save.  Whether you take one dollar a day and place it in a shoe box until the end of the year, its still saving.  More commonly open up an savings account through your banking institution.

COLLEGE FUNDS: If you have a child or children you start looking into College Funds.  The cost of tuition is, how do we put this, "CRAZY."  If enrolling as a full time student in a four year university the average tuition in America is $9000!! If enrolling in a two year the average is $3000!! Thats not even including books and other necessities.  Start checking now through your bank if offering any college fund programs or even through your place of employment.

INVESTMENTS: Another goal that may be beneficial if dealing with the right economy depending on how things are at the time would be to invest.  Check for different stocks that you may can invest in by checking the 10K which is an annual filing available to investors about specific companies.  You can also invest through your 401K if applicable.

DEBT: If in any debt situations try to rid of it.  You might be going into 2012 that way with 2011's lingering issues but Do Not let it linger into the New Year too long.  Call creditors and seek payment plans that can help you pay off delinquent accounts in timely fashion.  

REOCCURRING BAD HABITS:  Everyone has some kind of bad habit.  It could be over spending your money or even paying bills late so forth and so forth.  Do Not bring these habits into 2012. Take a minute to think of what is causing you to have such a messy pattern and take back control of your finances.

I PAY MY BILLS ON TIME:  Another issue many face is late bill payment!!  There are times when funds are insufficient at the time when something calls to be paid.  We've all been there.  However many institutions are charging outrageous late fee's.  Whether its a credit card bill or a utility bill try and use better budgeting skills to be prepared when something is due.  If the funds just aren't available at the time, at least call in and inform the company of when payment will be available thus giving them the benefit of the doubt and also possibly scoring you a waiver of the late fees with their concern.

LIFE INSURANCE PROTECTION:  This is a must!! If you have a family you need to invest in a life insurance policy that will protect your loved ones should anything happen to you.  Check with your employer or you can even use companies such as Met Life or New York Life. 

OVER DRAFTING:  With many banking institutions there is the enemy called "Over Drafting."  Too many people have this problem and although allowing you access to a full tank of gas with only 50 cents in your pocket, you wont be left with much after and it only hurts you in the long run.  See some banks allow you to over spend out of your checking account but with a penalty which in average is around $35.  If not replacing that overdrawn money in your account in a timely fashion some banks will charge you an extended overdrawn fee around $20.  By the time you've gotten through those fees that $40 tank of gas actually cost you $95!!! #CRAY

BEYOND MEANS:  Do Not shop on a Kim K, {Ummm Hmmm Ladies} or Kanye West {Ummm Hmmm Fellas} BUDGET if you are realistically facing money woes like Jermaine Dupri!!! On a serious note for 2012 do not live about your means trying to keep up with what society presents.  You can still be stylish and keep money in your pockets!!

PLAN B: Last on our list but certainly most important is to ALWAYS HAVE A PLAN B!!!   


~employment~


Direct Supp Asst Trainee

Entry Level Maintenance

Custodial Asst (John Jay College)

Painter (NYC Tech)

Mail Message Services Worker (Hunter College)

Laborer A (Medgar Evers College)

PayRoll Specialist-JetBlue (Forest Hills, NY)





~apartments~


Bushwick

Williamsburg

Bronx

Harlem

East Harlem

West 139th St


                           ~flashing financial report~



           It has been brought to our attention to now bring to yours that MCU Bank College Scholarship Program is now accepting applications for exceptional high seniors.  This year they will be offering 25 one time scholarships at a total of 65,000!!  Five $5,000 scholarships will be offered in honor of five nobles.  Twenty $2,000 general scholarships will be offered to students!!!  You can apply by stopping at a branch for an app or downloading it online.

Tasteful Tuesday

Give me good food, great company and excellent customer service; and you've got yourself and regular customer- J. Davis 

More Then Just Rice And Beans

From the outside looking in you would think this Spanish hot spot was just the typical rice and beans joint. With a name like Sazon one would be saying to themselves seasoning, soft Latin music and menu full of items beyond hard to pronounce. THINK AGAIN! This modern day restaurant born from that of the infamous sofritos is not only in tune with their Latin side but very in the now with keeping their non Latin public happy and comfortable. The loud orange decor keeps the vibe live while the low lighting still gives off that intimate touch. With a DJ on deck and great drinks to compliment, your bound to have a good time.

 Now on to the main event- THE FOOD! From the beef empanadas to the roast pork; the salmon croquettes and the skirt steak, Sazon has top notch meals that will fill you up and keep you coming back for more.... and more... did I say more?? In for a good drink?? Stock up at the bar on some peach ciroc w/ peach snaps and top it off with a sugar cane for the ladies. For my fellas indulge in a Grim Reaper also known as a New York City Death. Whether your there for a meal with friends or quick drink after work Sazon's is the place to be.

Great Food
Did we mention great Service?? From the moment you walk in and encounter the host to when your order is being taken by the waiter/waitress; everyone is pleasant, polite and professional. While you wait for your food enjoy the live DJ playing nothing but the best and taking request!! once your meal is served do not think the service is done. Know that someone will be in to check on you and make sure you are nothing but satisfied with your meal as well as their service. Celebrating a birthday? Enjoy a piece of birthday dessert courtesy of Sazon as 1stclassLadies member Katrina did!

 


--------> "I don't even like Birthday cake but That cake was mmmmhhmmm GOOD!" - K.Jones











1stclassLadies member like it!

Though this is a very comfortable restaurant, it is still classy!! You want to come correct or go home wrong. Hats, sneakers and construction boots are at no point in time permitted so fellas if you haven't already-STEP YOUR SHOE GAME UP ASAP! Ladies there is no need to go over the top dressy if you do not want to. Jeans and a nice pair of flats are acceptable.




even the bathroom door is hot- and CLEAN!

If you can't make it to Sazon, don't worry because Sazon will cater for you! Talk about keep getting better and better!! To contact Sazon here is all the information listed below:

Sazon
105 Reade Street
Tribeca, New york 10013
Telephone (212) 406-1900
For reservations & special events booking





Saturday, December 24, 2011

Scandalous Saturday

To know when to go away and when to come closer is the key to any lasting relationship.
Domenico Cieri Estrada




The Grinch Who Stole <3 On X-Mas

It's that time of the year again and, just like clockwork...You either snug up to kiss under the mistletoe with your love. Or chuck up duces to make room for new found liberation in the New Year. But before acting so hastily over a minor disagreement; putting your significant other on the naughty or nice list. Take into consideration the pros and cons within the duration of your relationship.Whether man or woman you need to keep in mind  that, you are the pinnacle in a successful or failed union. Meaning... you receive what you allow to transpire!! If your lucky you will have more good than bad on your tally poll. On the other hand, you may want to examine how to go about approaching the tough discussion that needs to occur. Yes, we know it may sound easier to achieve than it actually is. However if you don't take a stand at some point; you will forever be a stepping stool.. or notch in a belt.


We here at 1stClassLadies know all too well how complicated it can be.. so we've decided to give you the Naughty and Nice signs to determine if you're significant other is just another.

                                                      

The Nice List:

Your lover  makes time for you no matter how conflicting it may be to their schedule. It doesn't matter if it's a inconvenience, they just want to have quality time to be in your presence. Something as simple as talks and cuddling in the morning; or before bed will suffice if their work schedule doesn't permit the time needed

There are no Grey areas!!!  You have great communication. They tell you the good..bad..and ugly!! Meaning there are no trust issues..  You have all passwords to social networks without asking. When it comes to picking up their phone they don't flinch; because there is nothing to be cautious of you finding.

Your lover can keep you on your toes.. we all know when you loose interest troubles can occur out of pure boredom. It can stem from the most important thing.. i.e mental stimulation, to physical.

They show you support.. Through job changes, or family drama!! Your love should always try to be a voice of moral, spiritual, and emotional support. And when needed pull you back to reality when your at risk of self destruction.
Your lover demands that others show you ample respect, while showing you respect on a constant. They will not let a family member, or ex (key letter X) have more significance.. meaning if someone tries to disrespect your placement/title in his or her life. They automatically nip it in the bud.


                                                     


The Naughty List:

 They no longer do things in consideration of you; or your feelings!! There is no emotion or effort to show they care.They have become comfortable!! (And We Don't Mean In A Good Way) There is no fear of loosing you, and with comfort comes arrogance. They feel irreplaceable in your life and take advantage of the position you've given.

They've become distant.. physically, emotionally, mentaly!! As Dru Hill would say, " We don't even talk no more. We ran out of words to say; does it ever stay the same?" That's right my darlings the honeymoon phase has passed. True colors have been painted; and unfortunately the hue is GREY!!

They have become un-supportive; the  little things they once adored  about you have become flaws. Your optimism is seen ass lack of ambition, or they belittle your credentials. 
 You give and they take emotionally with passivated assurance of sarcasm

The overnight stays have diminished. You no longer have a draw.. you have a Rubbermaid bin in the closet. Or your stuff is simply moved and put back upon your entry or exit.

They are secretive!! There is nothing more clear with a sign of infidelity than; when a clear line of open communication becomes blocked off. The phone is under the pillow (set on vibrate or silent), they speak low, and look over there shoulder while on the laptop.

  Remorseless Sexting (Not with you)... Big NO NO!!! The most inexcusable form of disrespect.

 They have considered you a option, not made a priority. How much clearer or BLUNT do you need it? This person is with you for the mere convenience of what tickles their fancy at the moment. Or because you've made it that easy!! The introductions to friends and family have ceased; or never was. You are not mentioned because your status is unknown to others.

So what have we learned today?? Well, although the honeymoon phase does not last. There are little things that should never fade. If there isn't a established trust, communication, and mutual respect for both parties involved then what the sense? Whether man or woman you deserve to be in a healthy relationship. But if your not in one; while trying to make it work.. and have no positive change. Then you need to face the fact that it never was or will be what love is!!

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Thoughts For Thursday

America's fighting men and women sacrifice much to ensure that our great nation stays free. We owe a debt of gratitude to the soldiers that have paid the ultimate price for this cause, as well as for those who are blessed enough to return from the battlefield unscathed. -Allen Boyd

Home Sweet Home......
He is someones uncle. She is someones mom. They left behind friends,family, neighbors, even their children to become hero's. Willing to sacrifice their own lives in order to keep our country safe. To keep to us free. Taking the title as the longest war in U.S. history while claiming the lives of over 4,400 men and woman and wounding an estimated 32,000, 1stclassladies is more then proud and pleased to say THE WAR IS OVER AND OUR SOLDIERS ARE COMING HOME. Everyday of every year (almost 9yrs to be exact) some soldier is starring at a picture of their new baby boy while another is tracing over the words written in a card sent from home both asking the same question- when will this end??




The officials for the U.S. as well as Iraqi have spent so much time trying to decipher whether to honor the December 31, 2011 troop withdrawal deadline which was set into play by former President Bush in 2008. Some are worried the withdrawal is happing to fast and we should leave a few military troops in Iraqi for a while after the new year. However it was reported that "Iraqi leaders have adamantly refused to give U.S. troops immunity from prosecution in Iraqi courts, and the Americans have refused to stay without it." 


over 100,000 troops have returned home from Iraqi already. As excited as we are and want to celebrate, we are pronounced with yet another serious question- what happens for our soldiers now?? T he reality is a soldier will never return home as the same man or woman they once were. Some have a tuff time adjusting to life they once lived. Some become so used to the battle that relaxation is not an option and they don't know what to do with themselves. A simple slam of the front door can trigger a war memory causing a trooper to grab his/her gun which they still sleep with underneath their pillow. As much as this changes their lives, it also changes that of their loved ones. A husband may not know how to console his wife through a breakdown while a father may not recognize the distant person his son a become. Well we feel as much as our troops have done for us, its now our turn to take care of them!!
Understand that we can not change what our soldiers have been through but we can help ease it and make the rest of their lives better. They were on the front line for use now its time for us to be their herosw!!! 1stClassLadies would personally like to thank the not only the soldiers but the family and friends of those men and women. You were their strive. You were their strength. That make u a warrior too!!!!
Here are ways to help our Soldiers coming home!!


help Our Men and Women
Remember Those That Our Soldiers Started This For!
http://lifeafterwar.org/


Wednesday, December 21, 2011

WANTED WEDNESDAYS

"Its a tough job
                            but Somebody has to do it"
                                                                            -Unknown







Now-a-days the economy is rough forcing many singles and families to make major changes in their lifestyles to make ends meet.  People have been laid off from well paid jobs or at a lost where they are unable to find employment else where.  Some have turned to the government for some well needed assistance using various aids of grants, food, shelter, and employment.   

However some have chosen to take what others might consider to be a "harder" route.  This route would be the decision to balance multiple jobs.  Like we stated above It's a Tough Job but Somebody has to do it.  For some this is an only option to make the stature of money needed for their household.  1STCLASSLADIES are here to give some tips on how to stay sane when involved in this career pattern.


Work Schedule

When working multiple schedules make sure that you leave yourself some "you" time in between.  With only seven days in a week, 24 hrs in a day we can imagine it will be mostly taken up with work hours.  However, for example if working all seven days a week leave yourself one day to be relieved of all work duties.

Healthy Eating & Excercise

We know with such an hectic schedule excercise might seem like a stretch, here's why this is important.  When working multiple jobs and it being very time consuming some tend to become less aware of their eating habits which can lead down a path of bad health.  Same thing goes for the person who was in the practice of working out until they began to work multiple jobs, this will surely slip after awhile because of the lack of time.  
Our solution to this is to not become to fixed in the mindset that you "dont have time".  Instead of eating out during lunch pack something from home.  If having to make a pit stop for something to eat make sure its a healthy choice.
If applicable and fees able join a gym and attend once a week.  This will help you to maintain a work out regimen though being faced with time.

Pampering/ Free Time/ Sleep

Your body at some point or another will feel the stress of working so much.  We recommend first and foremost that when having the opportunity to get some shut eye, take it at ALL COSTS!!!
If any type of pampering services are available from a loved one or even having to visit a massage parlor or spa, DO SO!!


~employment~


Direct Supp Asst Trainee

Entry Level Maintenance

Custodial Asst (John Jay College)

Painter (NYC Tech)

Mail Message Services Worker (Hunter College)

Laborer A (Medgar Evers College)

PayRoll Specialist-JetBlue (Forest Hills, NY)





~apartments~


Bushwick

Williamsburg

Bronx

Harlem

East Harlem

West 139th St